Life, food, events, and community in Albuquerque, NM

The Single Life

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A place for all the uncommitted, unattached, and unabashedly groovy people on Duke City Fix! Whether you're looking for someone or are happy to be free, this is a place to discuss the single life in the Duke City.

Members: 62
Created By: Benny the Icepick
Latest Activity: 1 hour ago

Goals of this group

1) Organize meet-ups. Get to know each other in a no-pressure, group environment
2) Be as inclusive as possible for all ages, sexual orientations, etc.
3) Demonstrate that Albuquerque is a great place to be single!

Discussion Forum

Making Matches 3 Replies

What's your opinion of matchmaking websites? What's your favorite? Got any suggestions? Are the payed sites worth it? What about free matchmaking sites? Are there any good ones? Any that should be ...

Started by Greg Gómez. Last reply by killbox 1 hour ago.

Next get-together? 7 Replies

Jesus Christ, 60 members?? Whens/where should we go for the next happy hour? Ideas?

Started by Jennifer Jane. Last reply by 1.6 Band Jul 1.

Speed Dating Tomorrow Night at O'Niells! 1 Reply

Hi hotties! Things are filling up nicely--but I need a few good men to balance out all the ladies The first ten straight (or bi) guys who contact me get to go to speed dating for 1/2 price! yup--5 ...

Started by Self Serve. Last reply by Jennifer Jane Jun 26.

Things to do on a Blind Date 8 Replies

OK, my fellow singlings, here's a good one for you: Where do you take a blind date? This is vastly different from other threads that deal with out-of-towners. Here you are, going out with a compl...

Tagged: sightseeing, date, single

Started by Benny the Icepick. Last reply by pineapple_yum Jun 25.

Perks of Singlehood! 10 Replies

There are some advantages to being in couples, but it seems these days people would rather hit it solo! What is your favorite part of being single?

Started by imouse1. Last reply by 1.6 Band Jun 20.

Love Is 11 Replies

Not necessarily a "single" question-- maybe more of a poetry question. What metaphor best describes your idea of love-- not generalized love, but the love that threads people into romantic relation...

Started by Samara. Last reply by 1.6 Band Jun 17.

Happy Hour? 10 Replies

Who wants to meet for happy hour maybe sometime next week? Where? Ideas? I'm voting Anodyne- any one else?

Started by Jennifer Jane. Last reply by Samara Jun 8.

The Question On All Our Minds...Why Are You Single? 12 Replies

What is that old saying..."People are in our lives for a reason, a season, or lifetime,"? The same probably goes for relationships. Why have all of you wound up single? Was it your choice, the cho...

Started by imouse1. Last reply by imouse1 Jun 4.

Events? 5 Replies

I've been out of touch with the group due to a mix of three different house guests (move to the middle of the desert and more people visit you than when you lived in a bad-ass coastal city...why?),...

Tagged: meetups, music, shows, art, singles

Started by Jennifer Jane. Last reply by Jennifer Jane May 29.

Single VS Lonely -- Are they the same? 3 Replies

Many people say that being single means being alone...but is that really the case? Loneliness can be characterized as the dissatisfaction with the breath and breadth of one's social network which c...

Started by imouse1. Last reply by Jill May 19.

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Comment by Self Serve on June 11, 2008 at 10:22pm: Hi Friends-
We're having our 1st speed dating event next weekend. Thought you might be interested.
xxo
the girls at Self Serve

Comment by Benny the Icepick on June 11, 2008 at 4:50pm: All right, chillin's... tomorrow's the big day!

See you all at Anodyne.

Comment by Victor Velazquez on May 27, 2008 at 5:58pm: Hello,
Yes I do look like Guillermo Richardson! I would like to say hi to everyone from this beautiful city. I have recently been coming to ABQ because of my job and I was amazed at the party scene, nitelife and restaurants in the area. What really struck me was that I found a drink that I thought was only in LA....that is sotol. I got it at Kelly´s Liquor. Are there more Kelly´s in ABQ! I was happy to see Hacienda and my favorite, Don Cuco! Right on ABQ! This place knows its alcohol

Comment by Jacqui Lewnes on May 15, 2008 at 8:29am: What is funny is that we have more Mavens than Singles on DCF.

Comment by Isa on May 14, 2008 at 9:18pm: Hi. I just joined the group. Why am I single? Hmmmm.... Well, I can think of lots of reasons. The biggest one is that I haven't met anyone who I want to be vulnerable and real with. That takes time and energy, both I currently don't have a lot of. I'm also a bit shy and avoidant...lol. I date here and there, but eventually I always feel a bit confined. I am currently exploring whether this is committment phobia or a matter of just not meeting the "right" person. But I'm sure if you were to ask any of my ex's, they'd hand y'all a list as to why I am single ; )

Comment by simpletons_mayor on May 14, 2008 at 5:45am: Good on ya Benny. Now what indeed...

Comment by Donny Ozmund on May 13, 2008 at 1:25am: Single is great: It's a hit in baseball... not so much in cash.

Comment by Randy Burge on May 12, 2008 at 11:32pm: Amen, Benny. From flat to multi-dimensional. Can't say that I'm unabashedly groovy, but for those without the flashy charm, spectating with those who bring their Verve always makes for an artful evening.