I have recently learned that I am on the very short guest list for my ex-boyfriend’s wedding. Woo. Aren’t we healthy and happy?

Regardless of whether or not I’m planning on attending the event I need a present that says, “I’m happy for you.” I also feel obligated to purchase a present because if I don’t, I look about as bitter as Scarlett O’Hara on the wedding day of Ashley Wilkes.


The reality is that I am happy for them, but I don’t feel the need to spend tons of money, but I want to be creative. They aren’t the wedding registry type of people and I don’t want to get them the obligatory Target gift card.
I want to give them something unique. They don’t live here anymore, but love the state. I’d like to get them something reflective of Albuquerque, but can’t get them a gift certificate to somewhere local since cashing it in might be a problem.


Anyone have any great present ideas that I can give?